What's the update? You need to help us help you. I read that you had an A before, that can seriously jeopardize trust so repairing the damage and understanding the causes will help you as a person. I dont remember reading about 180s that you were doing so please respond with action oriented plans you have or will have. This is your time to give the S room to breath and miss you, and remind the spouse by your actions of who you are.
Goodluck brother
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
