I had a hard night that's why I am up. Wife came home and we got along fine took the kids out for dinner. When we came home I gave her space until I was ready to go to bed. In bed we ended up sleeping pretty close to each other until later that night she asked me to move over. She was the one that was moving closer to me what is she doing?
She's not "Doing" anything and I don't believe this is a game to her.
She is obviously very confused and in pain, and thus she is behaving accordingly, (which means inconsistently.) Don't pressure her, don't press for clarity when there is no clarity, and don't get next to her. Give her space, especially in bed.
How else is your intimacy level going?
When you said you thought she felt you put the kids ahead of her, what did YOU mean?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
