9. Don't run through life so fast that you forget not only where you've been, but also where you are going.
This really struck a chord with me. This is what I was doing pre BD. I run so fast through life, always trying to achieve something for the future, but didn’t notice the present. I have some memory gaps from that time because I was running so fast. I actually realized I was doing it sometime before BD and was trying to change it. BD just sped up the process of transitioning to living in present.
It seems like you W is doing some serious work within herself. Keep up the hope and patience going.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state