Wife moved out need help!!!

[Ben2010]

All good, but leave out that talk about I love you and want to make you happy. That all comes off as pursuing and desperate. You really cant give in to everything she wants. I dunno how I feel about the friend thing if youre a married couple either. I would have worded that differently. You have right idea, but dont let her control everything. You dont need to control her, but that makes it sound like you will do whatever she wants as long as you all are married.

She said ok and I told her that if she ever wanted me to stop all she has to do is say so

This I would not have said at all either. I would have told her "I would like to work on the R with you, I understand that it will take some time". Dont throw the negatives in there at all.