Ok, so I want to know if I'm doing stuff right or if he's just living in his fog.
3 weeks ago H told me that he felt awkward in the house. Backstory...he stays at a "friends house" at night and has since 5/4. When H talked to his atty about the divorce, it was discussed that he wanted 50/50 custody. To not appear to have "abandoned" his family, H wants a schedule created before moving out. H comes home from work around 6/6:30 and leaves about 9/10. Kids are usually outside playing and H is inside with me.
Football just started for s10. I take him to practice and H meets us there, but then comes over after practice. H was out of town last week and said he would get me a schedule for kids before he left. Nothing has been brought up since and neither has R or D conversations. I don't want to guess what he's doing, but is this normal for WAS to want out so badly and then fall through with actual plans? I don't want H to move out, but technically he already has.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
