^^I completely agree with this. I spied on the wife with her iCloud account so I could see her text messages and all of her contacts, phone records, emails etc. This drove me insane. As soon as I stopped doing it is when things turned around for me. I stopped having to think about what she was doing all the time. This is a big part of detachment. Stop looking at your Ws facebook or whatever it is youre seeing. Leave it alone and worry about yourself right now and what you need to fix.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14
