No Drew, you're right, I guess I don't have to understand...and trying to is mind reading. All there is is the future now and whatever that may bring. I wish I shared your optimistic approach. Maybe after a couple days go by I will. The wound is too fresh right now.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14