Sounds like you have the right idea an mindset. I can definitely relate as I fell into a trap that had me turning into a less outgoing confident person, which happened for many reasons. Just keep working on yourself and returning to your confidence, but as a new person! Sounds like you are making great strides.


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Bomb drop: 4/13, EA+PA: 12/13
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