Wow, wonka! I love that quote defining the difference between compassion and pity. What a perspective-giver that is!
Separately, isn't it true that in "some" cases, infidelity is brought on because the cheater wasn't getting what he/she needed so they look for it elsewhere? I'm not saying it's 50% the cheated ons fault at all but there's something missing, no? Except of course in the ever crazy world of MLC, where the sky is purple.
