First post, confused

[asat82]

Thanks ss06, it makes me stronger to hear from her, and allows me to feel good about myself. A couple of months ago I went to a little get together and flirted with a girl a bit, later that night she sent me a facebook message, and I got her number, and went to trivia with her the next week, but decided this is not the way I want to make myself better... for multiple reasons (mostly that I am very much in love with my wife). Though the attention does feel good. Maybe I should go out a bit, but I don't want these interactions to cloud my judgement.