Dang your good. Thank you! Really, the clarity around what I need to do is enormously helpful!! I am seriously going to write that down in big red letters and keep it in front of me the whole conversation.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14