Hi cq1,
I am proud of you. I know this was difficult but it sounds like she is really disrespecting you. And you have no reason to put up with that. So I think you did the right thing. I'm no expert on DBing but she is really being horrible and I don't think you should have to live with that daily.

I think you need to continue to be strong. She needs freedom to figure out her crap and you need the space to heal and get yourself together.

I am wishing you the best of luck. This is super hard but you will come out on the other side even better, I know it! This woman does not deserve you! (at least not right now)

Big hug,
Lisa

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.