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"WTF does he WANT?"


And that right there shows you have not dropped the emotional/mental rope. Yes, no expectations is part of having a dropped rope....but not all.

You keep looking back to see if he notices you've dropped anything. Which of course, is self-defeating.

When you truly drop it, you won't care what he thinks or how he feels.....nor want to explain anything. That needs to be your goal.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!