Thanks but no thanks is not enough.... I need to be able to state why... don't I? ---No.
HE needs to get that I am not MM on demand, on the shelf... waiting for him... ---No.
Especially when he STILL does not know what he wants with me. ---No.
anything that needs to be "said" is done through Actions, not words.
and you are absolutely on the shelf, all this discussion on whether or not you attend a party proves it.
HE KNOWS what he wants with you. He says it very clearly.
BUT YOU dont want to accept it, so you claim he's confused or not sure.
His inviting DD is to force a buffer between you two, its to protect him from you. Its to show YOU that its not a date.
why? because he knows that you will misinterpret it and start thinking its a date. HE knows.
Its only after you start your R talks that he starts waivering - and this is NOT because he doesnt know what he wants, its because he's doesnt know how else to say it so that you'll finally get it.
so he rewords his position and you misinterpret it.
the same thing happens here. you ask the same question multiple times, we answer that question changing the wording trying to help you understand, and the rewording confuses you more.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
