GGG,

Saw this great snippet from a spiritual site and thought of you (and all LBS of MLCers too!).

There is a profound difference between pity and compassion and your obligation extends to compassion, which requires detachment and acceptance, but not the energy of pity, which happens when you feel responsibility for others’ path, you believe that you have an obligation to ensure their happiness, or you feel responsible for creating outcomes you believe they cannot create for themselves.

Wow. Makes so much damned sense, doesn't it?