OK Starsky... from that I assume you don't think I should go. To continue on with my journey of dropping the rope & letting him go.
How did I lose any of my progress? I haven't done anything yet, other than look at my carrots/rope? I am not willing to lose any of my progress & that is why I am having a tough time. You suggesting that I am ripping out my carrots, concerns me!!
Here is what I am thinking... at the moment:
Part of me doesn't want to go, because its indulging in his "casual"... I want more than his casual time!
1) Tell him today that I would like to talk to him but not on business time. (This shows boundaries & that business is during business time & personal is on personal time)
2) Calling/texting him & saying: I've been thinking about the family party. You know I'd want to go, but I don't think its a good idea for me to go, right now AND because you said 3 weeks ago that you are concerned that people would think we are back together.
OR
3) Im not sure about going on Saturday because of what "you" said... when he asks... then tell him. And also say, "why is it ok to let family think we are friends, when we are not"....
he will just say "oh, ok"... to all of this
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ALSO... how can I keep a business attitude with him & then be socializing at a family function? This confuses me. Everyone says, separate the two...??? How?
Last edited by makingmagic; 07/17/1406:48 PM.
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