I agree MLP . It seems a bit of a contradiction when you ignore what they are doing and trying not to allow cake eating . Cake eating is totally going on in my sitch . But I detached from the sitch , so it seems to allow that behavior . One thing I have trouble with is determining what type of affair my wife is having . It certainly looks like an MLC. Also I want to agree with Forever young to only pay attention to his ACTIONS not his words , because you'll likely see him do things counter to what hes saying . Ive seen this alot with my wife . You are doing a great job MLP . And there will be days you feel alot more detached than others . And If your like me there will be days yet that you still feel very close .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )