Train,

So glad to hear that things are progressing for you! I promise that if you keep deliberately meeting each others needs that you will be in a better marriage than you could have ever dreamed of a couple of years from now.

I'm also glad to see that you have become consistent at asking for what you want. smile Don't worry about your husband's resentment- focus instead on the reality that YOUR resentment isn't being built up. It is your husband's responsibility to argue (not in a bad way) for what he does or does not want to do. Resolving those conflicts together will ultimately bring you closer.

Keep up the good work!!

-HS
P.S. In the spirit of "asking for what you want", would you mind stopping by "Meghan"'s thread in the Newcomers forum? wink
I've also asked her to read your thread, I think you could be of some real help to her.