Job, I am taking my lawyer's advice. What worries me is that if my xh loses the case he will transfer all his assets to his new wife and go bankrupt, leaving me with the big legal bill.
I have written to my lawyer expressing my concerns, and have also written to my three sons advising them that this is going on, and my concerns, and asking them for advice (two of them are lawyers, although not in this area)
I have forwarded the missive and advised xh's lawyers (got a snippy response from them asking me if my lawyers were acting for me Well hello, the last letter you got was from them. Xh has clearly found a snippy lawyer. No surprises there.)
