You're awesome T-boned. You sound like you're doing great. You should be really proud of yourself. Good luck at your appointment, hope all goes well. I hear ya on the health and diet - I lost about 30 pounds in 3 months after BD. totally unhealthy but I really couldn't do anything about it, now I can. I'm maintaining the weight loss (because I needed it) and am finally at my normal good weight. I feel happy in this body but I need more veggies. Already exercising but want to add a few things and get into a new routine of healthy eating. will work on that now. refi closed last night and that was the last step I had for this whole D. Now I have closure and the house is all mine. I feel so happy about that. Keep up the good work, no expectations when he comes back from his trip
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
Keep up the good work, no expectations when he comes back from his trip 
