Well, it's is final. The divorce decree came in yesterday as my XH text me and also said that he needs my stuff out of the house in a week since he might be moving. He asked if I could go last night and I told him after 730 pm I could. He then said don't worry about it since I'm too busy going out. He said I have my priorities messed up as I am going out instead of moving out. He then proceeded to say that I was not to contact any of his children and to leave my key to the house and military ID in the mail box last night after I was done drinking. I told him I would get my stuff out and that I would be out of his life for good. So that's where things are. I'm not going to continue DBing to reconcile with my XH. I'm done with him. I wished him well and I hoped he gets better and has a good life. Also told him I want to be civil. I am going to sell my wedding rings change my last name and get rid of any kind of things from my M.
Me 34 M 2.5 (Both 2nd M) My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12 BD 2/14 D final 7/2014