Hi cq1! I thought I'd check in on you on your thread. How are you doing?

I didn't really know your full story before, I just read through it. What a nightmare, and we do seem to have a few things in common indeed. I too was always "caring for" my S too much. Even after he starting acting like a distant jerk, I still felt bad not doing his laundry, cooking for him, and picking up after him. It felt good to stop and say "no I won't do that!"

I hope things are going well for you. Just wanted to say hi.
Hugs, Lisa

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.