Originally Posted By: Matt165
I think in my case until my W actually went and lived on her own she was never going to allow herself to be happy in the M.


I agree. Some just need to "see it through". All you can do is let her go and allow the Reality Stick to do it's job.

We all know you always were, and still are, a good deal for her. I believe someday she will realize this too. Just keep on going.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl