Oh, and I'm under no illusions that J will agree to PAY for counseling...but, I can't imagine anyone arguing that this is an ideal situation for two children who have just endured what they've endured. I know you don't want to hear it, but you may need to get your attorney involved in order to set some boundaries with J while all this gets settled. He is testing you right now and WE ALL know J is a force to be reckoned with when he WANTS WHAT HE WANTS. Don't expect yourself to face it alone. At least call your attorney and ask for his opinion.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
