That's the rub, isn't it? We don't want social experiments with our kids! That's what my W is doing. She keeps telling me how, even though she is ripping my D14's life apart, my D14 "will be fine". I can see that she has no idea how to make her own life work, who does she think she is to say that "D doesn't hurt the kids, it's how you act after" or "We all hurt our kids, they'll get over it" (especially since she is almost 48 years old and she STILL hasn't gotten over her own parents D!)?
We see how crazy the MLC is acting but they think that they know best not only for them selves, but for the people we care about most, our kids, and they won't listen to anything WE say as we are the "bad guys"! It really seems that a common theme with MLC is that we are somehow the "selfish" ones and that anything we want must be just to take something away from them! It doesn't matter how unselfish we were in our M. They seem to think we are scheming all the time to find ways to make THEM unhappy!
