MLP, You are amazing! Your strength and dedication to your H in all of this is inspirational. I gave up so quickly when my W went WAW on me. I really wish I'd been strong then (and found this community and the DR book immediately) as I wouldn't have done more damage to the R. I was watching SportsCenter just now and they were showing highlights of the ESPYs. One of the recipients of an award (he's battle cancer) quoted Jim Valvano (died of cancer a long time ago) who said "Don't give up, don't ever give up" and said those seven words guide him in his fight. They seemed really fitting to your handling of the situation. Dawgy, you too, if you're reading this, I've read quite a bit of your situation too.
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.