I also keep coming back to that I need H home. I need to feel like we r a team to face this together & that he's solidly with me. As long as we're separated I don't feel that way. I know people disagree with this but my gut keeps saying the only way through this is as a team & separated is not a team


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14