J is a weasel. A complete weasel. I don't trust him one iota. He has his own thoughts about things whether they make sense or not. He is a planner and a schemer. I still think he is with OW so he has a babysitter and so her folks can give him money.
WH I get this, I really do. (my law suit still unresolved)
What about calling him on this OW taking care of the kids - a bit like with the dog? Let her try it for a week - I think he will be paying you to take them off her hands personally. However I do appreciate we do not want to make social experiments with our children!!
