Hey you guys, thanks for all your input. It really make me feel better and validated!
That really does makes sense that in their mind they think " you're ok, Im ok, so everything worked out in the end". That's XH to a T! Because that's how he's acting! He's acting like nothing ever happened, and everything is just WONDERFUL!! yet when D14 slammed him with her reality, it did shake him up. D 14 still won't speak to him.
I found out that OW's grandkids are now calling XH grandpa. I felt I needed a drink at that point. He doesn't mind it at all.
OW's family seems to worship him. Yet OW drags him around by his nose and from the sounds of it, he's quite whipped.
You know sharing kids with an MLCer is the hardest thing anyone could ever do. You know I step up and ask the girls how they're feeling about their dad's new situation being married. Ex has never attempted to speak to them about their feelings about this at all. He's completely brushing it under the rug! Am I wrong to ask the girls how they feel about this?
I still feel so damn crazy at times! Im left here to still take care of all the deep emotional work, while he gets to focus his entire life on what he needs to make him happy!
This single mother bread winner is so hard. Im so tired and yet I know I can't depend on him for anything but to babysit the D11 for a few days. And that's it.
What I don't understand is why he treated me as less than human, like just about all MLCer's do yet is so damn nice to me it makes me sick.
