I've seen a few people mention 5LL here. At what point in DB would you recommend that book? i.e. when things seem to have taken a turn for the better (which hasn't really happened here, sadly). In my quest to become the type of H only a fool would leave, I'm trying to get all the knowledge and tools that I can into my utility belt.
M:35 W:31 S: 9 D: 5 M: 11.5 yrs BD: 5/13 W moved out: 7/13