Been a while since I posted. Been focusing on me for a while but kinda poking my head up now to see where I am. W affair ended about 11 weeks ago. From what I've gathered it turns out OM was still married and hadn't told her. W has had serious depression and withdrawal of OM for most of this time. She just recently got her own place and a new job, started counseling and being ratther friendly these days. No sign of her talking about relationship or reconciliation. As for me I've gotten out of the house now that its in foreclosure, couldn't keep up with it on my own, and gotten a nice aparemtn for S and me. W makes no arguemnt that she cannot take S to live with her but constantly wants extra chances throughout the week to come over and see S or meet up out to spend some time with him. I've gotten back to working out, not loosing any additional weight yet but getting fitter. Got S into summer camp and made arrangements for ongoing daycare and registered him for school. Feeling all Mr. Mom at this point.
Interactions with W are pretty pleasant these days. She continues to every once in a while make apologies, but then she cries and drops the subject. Also she makes comments about how much I deserve or how I'm too good. Not sure what that is supposed to mean in our sitch but I try not to read too much into it. W has not filed yet. I started to at one point but did not follow up on it.
Trying to get some sense of what direction to move in at this point. Any input?
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10
