"Speak Softly" The MLC Version

[BrightFuture]

Your H went further than my on a dating site. My H’s profile is not complete, there is no picture, and he didn’t write anything about himself.

In order to view his profile, I had to create a profile.

I did the same when I found out about him signing on this site.

Well, he'll figure out that most women 50+ are going to either not be his type, or they'll have baggage of their own, and will figure out pretty quickly that he's not who he says he is. And I don't think he's going to be all that attracted to them.

This! All of the avove and my H also would not want the kids around. I’m actually curious what he would post about himself. I’m thinking “Like to hang around at the bars, drink like fish, make inappropriate jokes, and then pass out in my camper parked nearby.”

Meanwhile, he's got a hot babe who is compatible with all his "interests" right here at home... probably the best thing he'd find on there!

And this! It’s been 2 years since BD for me and H still hasn’t found a “Harmonious” relationship for his “phase of life” after me.

The REALITY is he is five years older, has a wife, has sexual/relationship issues.. and finding somebody "new" is not going to "fix" it.

And this! Sometimes I wonder how my H thinks the things are going to work out with a “new” woman, while he is not divorced and has a wife who shares the vacation home with him.

A lot of things you posted so resonate with me. I find lots of similarities in our sitches. I’m just not as good a writer as you are.