You're sounding MUCH more grounded and centered, absolutely. And you're thinking through things instead of projecting all knee-jerk negativity.

You just have to remember this in the heat of the moment. Breathe. STFU. Give yourself time.

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014