Yep. On second thought, don't ask him if he believes having her close is going to impact your R attempts.

You've got it: go in and act as if you're reconciling.

The two of you are on the same team. OW doesn't have a jersey.

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014