Oh, and even though I feel it'd be next to impossible for you to be happy if H stays at his job, I'd keep that talk in your back pocket for now.

Wait to hear what he has to say. Ask the open-ended questions and listen without judgment or criticism.

Then come back here, and let's all talk about your next move.

You can do this!


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014