"I just don't understand why he invites me to stuff if he does not want a relationship & he knows there won't be any sex either. "


its YOU who insists for you and him to be in the same room, then it MUST include a relationship and sex.

HE'S been trying to get you understand the romantic relationship has been over for 2 years, but you refuse to accept it.

HE is simply being personable and relaying the invitation.

but YOU just have to twist it and force it to be more than it is.



I'm with sandi, say no and do not go. if you cant even handle the invite, going to the party would be a disaster.

"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".