Job... thanks but this isn't a work function.... this is a family one. Do you still feel the same? .... I will not go by myself, its at a different house than the last function. I am invited thru him, because of him. Not my own invitation.
IF I go, I can leave him on the sidelines and mingle with others. I can do that!
My question is... does it count as a backslide if I go? would going to this event, delay my progress? I am trying soooo hard to drop the rope, get off his pant leg & to focus on pulling myself away. If I go, I won't be pulling myself away from him, but putting myself in his space outside of work. Will this delay or be considered a backslide in my progress? Will he feel "aha", got MM back under my power & will now play catch & release with me ... again? <<< I am not interested in the catch me & release me game any more!!
I would like to make the decision, but not if everyone is going to 2x4 me ... I do not want to make ANyMorE mistakes... not even one!
Last edited by makingmagic; 07/16/1409:37 PM.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
