Originally Posted By: makingmagic


I just don't understand why he invites me to stuff if he does not want a relationship & he knows there won't be any sex either. Not sure whats in it for him. If he knows he doesn't want to be with me, why invite me? ... I don't want to be his "friend"


I think it's because he's "comfortable" with you. Men sometimes would rather stay with someone who already knows our faults, and seem to be okay with them, rather than start over with someone new who's going to analyze us and find us wanting, lol.

Plus, we NEVER think sex is out of the question! He probably still thinks he can wear you down.


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