Thanks Csan & GB. I promise to read again later when I'm not at work!!
I just need to vent for a second! Why is it that H stepped out of our M and violated his vows and yet he is the one who acts angry and wronged? WTF????? I think that our amicable D is now going to end up in mediation at the very least because he has become completely unreasonable. Yes, I'm pi$$ed about his A, but I, to the best of my ability, and am acting with grace and dignity. He has even commented several times that I am displaying more character through all of this than anyone he has ever known. He cannot say the same for himself.
His newest demand for our divorce...saying that our D7 gets the deciding vote if I ever choose to sell my house. Because, yes, it's an awesome idea to let minor children make complex financial decisions. I get that it is irrelevant because no court would ever grant it, but when he tries to negotiate (READ: get me to back down) by throwing out these crazy ideas, it makes it impossible to have a sane, rational discussion about what is in D7's best interest.
I think I need to pray...or drink...or maybe both...
