Matt, his reaction was silence, followed by a look of shock. He tried to defend himself for a minute or two but for the most part kept asking me if we could just talk. That he will move out but that he can't right now. I just responded with more rage. That he is moving out today. That he should be moving in with OW into his dream apartment anyway. That everyone knows she exists so why not just get on with it.. wipe your slate clean and start that new life of yours while we start ours. As for his brothers, he feeds them lies and they believe him. Then they see his actions, see that he's always irratic and MIA and doubt him again, but that's when he shovels more lies down their throats.
As for the food and laundry, that's done. To clear up my post about last night, I made something for D3 and he sat with her and helped her eat (not ate together) and then H ate the food he ordered for himself. I didn't offer to make nor did I actually make anything for him.
It's really time to let go. It's time for him to go off in the world and find himself, because I'm done riding the roller coaster with him.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home