Couldn't agree with you more on the dual outcomes. Unfortunately, my W sees both outcomes as destroying the kids either way. I will help them as best I can.
I know I will be fine too, and that's a great feeling. It's my kids that keep me in this struggle. And of course, they are motivation enough. My dirty laundry pile is equally impressive. Going to need a lot of Spray and Wash for some bad stains if it goes that way.
It's a deal. As most M men do, I know all the hotspots, hit me up when your here.