Hey Zee,

I think it sounds like a good plan. Your ready, and I remember many moons ago you posted about only filing when you were ready to face the consequences of a D. Seems to me you are at peace with where things are at. You've been patient, not reactive, and have been very organized and methodical with your planning. I think you have a plan laid out, and are prepared for whichever outcome occurs.

And your right, if your W chooses to be the fool, there is nothing you can do about it. I've realized that actually, should my W chose to not R, there's several options out there. I'm sure your aware of that distant thought anyways.

It's only too bad your on the opposite side of the continent. My vacay is at the same time. Sure we could swap some doozies over a few drinks smile

Good luck and enjoy your vacation.

Dev


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive