I second EVERYTHING that everyone has told you.

I just don't think you're capable of understanding. I really think you need to go to personal counseling for yourself to learn how to interact with people in general. It shouldn't be so hard for you to understand the concept of loving your D.

And sandi has mentioned it before. It seems like you look up facts just to come up with an excuse why not to do something. Like the thing about a D being closer to her mother during a divorce. That's BS. You're just using it as an excuse to try and not get a relationship with her because it scares the daylights out of you.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER