I can ask him but am not sure I trust I would get an honest answer or much of an answer at all. I know my blowups don't help but he truly has a really difficult time communicating, it's an issue across the board with him (colleagues, other family members, etc). Also, what would I do with the answer? Obviously I might not like the answer :-( I mean if he says something to the effect of 'well, it really stirs up my feelings for her' WTH am I going to do about that...other than torture myself every day with the knowledge??
I appreciate your observations, it's a good reminder to give it a day or so to cool down. I'm glad you think that I *can* think clearly...eventually ;-)
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
