Not Confused...Insane in the Membrane

[BRNR]

Hi All,

So things have settled down since I last wrote. No contact with Shmoopie is getting me back to where I need to be again.

I've been making a lot of positive moves for me and my boys. Some things have or are coming together and other things plans are being put into place. Baby steps, and I am okay with that.

No word from my attorney regarding the follow up response to Shmoopie's attorney regarding the support issues, health insurance, divorce, etc....not sure that I care what that means really.

In talking with my best friend over the weekend I realized a lot about where I am in this journey...it only took a year and half...LOL! No but seriously, I have found that I am living my life the way I wanted to when Shmoopie was a part of my life. I have really likened everything to a death of my husband. I'm still right where I always wanted to be, he is just not included. I am not sure if that is a good or bad thing, but I am happy with it. I live in my home, have good friends, love my two sons, still with my job, and still have my dream car. LOL. I am managing everything independently. And I am proud of me for that. I guess I will go back and read the link for the stages of the LBS, because I am sure that now that I have gone through this I will be able to see myself in them a lot more.

(feel free to post the link if it is readily available to anyone).

I would love to know how Golfmom and Protia are doing? And I don't have a lot of time to read anymore, and only glance from time to time...hoping someone has a good MLC "Survival" Story (whatever that looks like).

I hope everyone is having a good day...when life gives you lemons...throw them at someone. LOL!!! Have a great day everyone.