Originally Posted By: Oxford1
Would it make sense to leave this for my wife to find?

NOOOO!!!!

Originally Posted By: Oxford1
Can I say something like :

If you end up in bed with him you need to call me and tell me to file for divorce we are done?

Didn't you listen to anything 25 said to you? Do you think that's setting a healthy boundary or a controlling ultimatum?


Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.