I seriously need someone to tactically tell me what to do. I thought we were reconciling & now I am devastated again. I don't see how we can get through this. How can I possibly cope with him being around her? Not to mention how can he possibly control himself? He is not even firmly re committed to me. This could not have happened at a worse time. It's not like he's saying I'll do whatever u need to make u feel safer. I imagine he's thinking seriously about the possibility of being with her now.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14