Welcome aboard. While you're waiting on your book to arrive, here's the link to Michele's first chapters to books.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2388883#Post2388883

Hope you will post often.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!