Our situations are so similar. But what I find to be almost impossible to understand is that our 3 wives seem to be so clueless about the need for sex. To think that women at this age would think that is is OK to have marriages without much sex OR affection. I bet I am lucky if my wife kisses me 3-4 times a year. How can women like this be so FREAKIN CLUELESS that they are destroying their marriages. Why would anyone want to be LIKE THESE LADIES ARE. If I was like this I might take a long walk on a short pier. And they have to know that men's lives are really ruled by sexuality. They see it everyday on TV, the male high sex drive. Understanding men is so incredibly simple, and yet these 3 women obviously don't have a clue. And there are millions just like them. Dr. Laura also talks about this almost everyday on her radio show, and she too can not understand how grown women can be so CLUELESS as to what actually makes a marriage work. IT REALLY IS SO SIMPLE, DESIRE SEX WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND HE WILL GIVE YOU THE WORLD (as long as he is a HD Male).