Dave: I had to laugh. Sounds like your W and mine were cut from the same mold. She loves it when I pick up after myself, and when I take the initiative to clean some area of the house that really needs it. Unfortunately, don't do this if you think it will be a quid pro quo, in other words, if I clean this up, she'll have sex with me. It doesn't work that way, at least not for me. Pick up after yourself because it's the right thing to do.
As far as keeping your mouth shut, especially about the sex, as I said before, while you have to give her some time to read the book, you need to set some boundaries, too. It shouldn't take more than two weeks to a month to read it. If, after a month, she hasn't made some progress in the book, you should mention it to her.
I gave my wife the book about 3 weeks ago and, at first she went ballistic. Then she read the first chapter and half, then, it has sat on the floor collecting dust. I figure in about a week, I'll ask if she's made any progress.
